• How to Know God’s Will

    In this week’s Saying Grace column in Fredericksburg Free Lance-Star newspaper, I shared how I came to the conclusion that it was God’s will for me to resign as Groups Director at River Club Church.

    You can read that column by clicking here.

    I also promised resources that you can use to further learn about how to know God’s will for you life. You will find those below.

    8 Keys to Knowing God’s Will for Your Life – biblestudytools.com

    Can I Know God’s Will – book by R.C. Sproul available for free at Amazon.com

    How to Know God’s Will – book by Watchman Nee available for $1.50 at Amazon.com

    So You Want to Know God’s Will – blog post by author Lisa Whittle

    How has God revealed His will in your life? Do you have a story to share? I would love to hear from you.


  • How to Find Hidden Gems of Truth in the Bible

    In this week’s Free Lance-Star Saying Grace column, I shared the deep insights I learned from studying two short Scripture verses. Sometimes, when we read a passage from the Bible, it can seem like there is nothing to learn from it. But Paul wrote in 2 Timothy 3:16 that all Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for training and instruction in righteousness.

    You can read more on the topic here: Free Lance-Star website.

    There are some amazing Bible Study resources on the Internet that you can use in your own study of God’s Word. I have linked some of my favorites below.

    Finally, the reason I found myself studying Psalm 120 in the first place was because I had been asked to teach on it at my church this past Sunday morning. I was amazed at the wisdom, truth, and life application that God revealed to me in those short seven verses. Oh, and if someone knows how to change the screen shot that Facebook chose as the placeholder for this video, let me know! It is not the most flattering of photos – LOL. The worship is fabulous, but if you want to watch just my message, it begins at around the 30 minute mark.


    Bible Study Tools  – A great resource for free commentaries, Bible dictionaries, concordances, and more!

    Faithlife Study Bible – A fantastic study Bible available as an app or in print

    Bible Gateway  – A great site where you can read multiple Bible translation side by side.

    Logos Bible Software – My go to resource for when I really want to dig into a passage. They have multiple package levels to fit different needs.

  • Fight Human Trafficking by Wearing a Dress

    In  this week’s Free Lance-Star column (click here to read) I shared about the plague of human trafficking and modern day slavery.

    As a mother of four little girls, it breaks my heart to think of any woman or child suffering the horrors of sex trafficking and slavery. The problem can seem like one that is too big for one person to do anything about, but when we join together to bring about awareness and to raise funds each little act can make a huge difference.

    That is why I have committed to wearing a dress everyday during the month of December. Through this small act, I hope to raise awareness around this issue and to raise funds for International Justice Mission, an organization my husband and I have supported for years. Steve worked with them for two weeks in Bolivia over a decade ago, so I am confident that the funds raised will be going to a reputable group who will use the money wisely.

    Will you support this effort? Either through making a donation or by joining my team and committing to wearing a dress everyday in December? One dress can truly make a difference when the woman wearing it has committed to changing the world.

    You can make a donation through my personal Dressember Fundraising Page.

    Want to join my team and commit to raising funds and awareness through wearing dresses in December? I would love to have you! Visit my Team Page for more information.

  • Honoring our Father and Mother and the Day I Lost My Marbles

    In this week’s Free Lance-Star column, I shared about the hilarious experience of moving my Grandmother into a senior citizens’ apartment building.

    You can read that article here.

    I am so blessed to still have my grandmother in my life and I am so thankful that I was able to give back to her in a very small way by helping her to move and to unpack. My grandmother has been a constant source of love and support. She has always been one of my greatest cheerleaders and biggest fans.

    She stepped in to help raise me when my father left my mother. She made sure that I went to church every Sunday (and I have the perfect attendance Sunday School pins to prove it). We spent summers swimming in her pool and watching movies in her basement. We ate sun-ripened tomatoes on her back porch while watching old TV shows on her small black and white screen television.

    Every Saturday was spent at the church where she served as secretary. The same church where both my mother and father and my husband and I were married. I would help her “run off the bulletins” on an old mimeograph machine––the original was typed on an old typewriter and was literally cut and pasted together.

    June meant attending the church’s June Fair and November brought the Christmas Bazaar. I would help her and the other ladies prepare sweet confections to be sold.

    I loved sitting on the old metal glider on her front porch while listening to her tell stories of younger years. Of how she worked in the Navy Yard in Portsmouth during the war. How she used to draw a line up the back of her legs with eyeliner so that it would look like she was wearing stockings. Of summers spent walking the boardwalk in Atlantic City, New Jersey.

    Most of all, I remember the love. The love she felt for not just myself, but everyone around her. I learned from her what it means to selflessly give to others. The world has been very blessed by Dolores Miller for almost ninety years. It is my prayer that God will continue to bless us with her love and life for many more to come.

  • Protecting Yourself from On-line Predators

    This week’s Free Lance-Star column was a very difficult one to write. In it I recounted the difficult events that wreaked havoc in my life this past January. I have been hesitant to share this story publicly, in fear that it would cause this individual to make contact again.

    Click here to read the article.

    I did not want to let him know the turmoil he caused. I was afraid he would think that he won. But I will not live my life in fear. I will allow God to shed His light on the things done in the darkness. The truth is, this individual did not win. God did. He won over 2,000 years ago when He sent His Son to die on the cross for our sins. My sins. This individual’s sins. He won when He conquered sin and death and rose from the grave to eternal life. He won when He offered that same gift to all those who would put their faith in and follow Him.

    It is because of that grace that I am able to move forward in confidence. He tells us that He works all things for the good for those who love Him and have been called according to His purposes. That is why I have decided to share what happened to me and the lessons that I have learned. In the hopes that it will protect other children and families from the predators who lurk in the dark corners of the Internet.

    Below you will find a link to an article that goes into great detail about the dangers of posting photos on-line. Be warned, some of the information included is graphic and disturbing. I share it though because I think it is one of the best descriptions of the depravity of these individuals. It also gives very detailed information of what types of photos not to post on-line.

    What Predators Look for When You Post Photos of Your Children On-line

    Please, do whatever you can to protect yourself and your babies. Be smart. Be vigilant. But also pray for the predators and pedophiles. I cannot imagine the agony of living in darkness day in and day out. Pray that God’s love and light would break through and save them from sin and death. Pray for their victims. That God’s healing would make them whole again and that He would restore what was stolen.